That Time James Broke His Face...

I know it isn't Thursday so it's weird to have a "Throwback Thursday post" go up today. But it's been two years since my husband broke his face riding a bull. (Yes, you read that correctly!) Instead of retelling the story in honor of this weird anniversary, I'm just going to leave this old post here for those of you who don't know the story. This post was originally published back in February 2013, so I call James my boyfriend in it. This old school post will also give you an idea of my experience and viewpoint on rodeo in preparation for my recap of the IFR rodeo I attended last weekend that will be going up tomorrow! Enjoy. And I'm sorry for the pictures!

It’s been a crazy couple weeks. Lots happening, but one of the biggest distractions lately has been my boyfriend. A week ago this past Friday, we went to Cowboys and he rode in two rounds. The first round went great – he covered and scored 59 points. The second round, however, was won by the bull. My boyfriend took a horn to the face a few seconds in, and his face immediately started swelling. I rushed him to the nearest ER.

That picture was taken less than an hour after the incident

The nurses were AMAZING at the emergency room. Super nice and helpful, much more so than the doctor who came in and started poking on his face with no warning! We (including his mom who we called on the way to the hospital) spent several hours waiting while he underwent a CT scan and was seen by another doctor (a much nicer one). Around four am we were finally sent home with three prescriptions and the number of an orthofacial surgeon.

The picture above was taken two days after the incident. The day after that I took him to see the surgeon. His face was already looking better – at least, the swelling around the eye had gone down immensely! The surgeon was wonderful, reassuring us that it looked like there was no serious damage. Unfortunately, their offices had different software from the hospital we went to, so he couldn’t look at the CT scans. So we left with the recommendation of a soft diet and light work, and an appointment to come back in a week.

This one was taken three days after the incident at the surgeon's office.

As the week went by, the swelling in his face went down quickly and he could open his eye all the way by Wednesday. The colors around his eye changed beautifully and his pain decreased as well. He didn’t so much follow the soft diet recommendation, unless you mean choosing soft tacos instead of crunchy ones, but he did take things a little slower than normal.

Today we went back to the surgeon. The color around his eye is almost gone (at least compared to what it was last week) but his eye is super red. The swelling is about 80% gone, and he seems to only experience pain when he really pushes himself too hard (or chews gum!). We were at the doctor for less than twenty minutes – long enough to be told that the surgeon looked at the CT scan and it looks like he should heal completely on his own! It will take time, and he might have a permanent little dent in his cheek (I have one above my left eyebrow, so who cares, right?) but definitely no need for surgery.

This was taken a week later when he was feeling much better. 

As I said, it's been two years since this happened. He still has some pain in his cheek when it is really cold, but overall he has completely recovered. I am still so thankful that this wasn't nearly as bad as it could've been. If you're wondering, he did ride bulls again after this incident, but he wore a helmet. He gave up riding entirely last February, a few months before our wedding. 

TGIF - Girls Weekend Edition

Whew, it's been a crazy week, right? The AT&T debacle took up way too much of my week, but we finally have all of our services back! I was actually only in the office two days this week, because I'm currently in Washington DC! 

Well, depending on what time you read this I might still be in Baltimore. I flew in yesterday morning to visit my little sister who lives here, but today I'm heading to DC for a girls weekend! We're going to see a play tonight, tour the White House tomorrow, and go to a fun and fancy event on Saturday night. It's going to be busy and fun and amazing, and I can't wait!

 So far I've had some awesome food (lobster mac and cheese and crab cakes), local beer, and spent hours watching Jane the Virgin at my sister's house. Anyone else watch that show? The premise seemed so crazy to me, but as long as you can accept it is a telenovela (basically a soap opera) it is actually pretty good! 

Of course we also went on a little tour of the city, but I'll tell yall about that another day. I'm off on a DC adventure! Have a fabulous weekend! 

When I Grow Up: Becoming a Communications Manager

Hey guys! Sorry today’s post is a little later than usual. The spotty internet we had on Monday disappeared on Tuesday, so all the things I’d planned on doing online last night (like preparing this post!) didn’t get done. So now I’m using my lunch break to get today’s When I Grow Up post up because I love y’all so much :)

Today’s post features Caitlin Anderson (formerly Muir, she married last year!), a communications manager for a large corporation. I’ve never met Caitlin in real life, but we’ve connected online through Twitter, though I can’t even remember how! You can find Caitlin on Twitter and Instagram. Now, let’s find out more about Caitlin’s career!

As a child, I wanted to be a ­______ when I grew up. A writer. I grew up on a steady diet of Jo March, Nancy Drew, and Anne Shirley. I wanted to investigate things, meet fascinating people, travel, and write books and articles that people would read on the subway to look intelligent. I also wanted to be a traveling nurse. 

How close (or far) is your current career from that dream? I am a professional writer. I use my words to inform and connect people. I'm not a novelist or a famous writer, but I do get paid to write - and that's something not a lot of people can say. 

What is your official job title? Communications Manager

Ok, now what does that really mean? I keep 600+ people within a division of a large corporation on the same page regarding goals, strategy, and internal knowledge. I work with people who are far more intelligent than I am and distill their messages to the essentials. 

What is a typical day like? It's of emails, curiosity, and creativity. I have an office that I go into and my own little cube. Sometimes, I travel to different offices around the country (and hopefully world!) to meet with our employees and learn how I can better craft stories that give them the information they need to do their job better. I host webinars, shoot and edit videos, attend conferences so I can live-blog them, and create infographics. I work the typical 8-5 but I have the freedom and flexibility to work from home if I need to. 

 How did you end up in this career? It was definitely a God-thing. I bounced around quite a bit after college - working as a barista, working on documentaries, I even had a stint where I trained to be a stock broker! Through it all, I was constantly writing. I had a blog that opened up radio interviews, job offers, and a lot of friendships. I took a chance and moved across the country to take a job as a PR manager. That grew my skills and led me to becoming a professional blogger and social media strategist and manager. Then I made the switch to internal communications. 

What kind of education or training did you complete for this career? I have my degree in Journalism. I'm constantly learning new skills to keep me sharp - everything from video editing, on-camera interviewing, and now, public speaking. 

What advice would you give to someone who wants a similar career? Stay zesty. Tell a good story, and do it in a way that resonates with your audience, but always let your personality shine! If you can boil down lots of information into a cohesive, and concise, story, you'll be able to help people solve problems. And that's what employers value. Think of other people. What's the important nugget of information that will help your audience? And how can you make that fun? No one likes jargon. Be real. Be human. Spice things up!

 Do you have any other career dreams? What do you want to be when you grow up? Of course! I have a small notebook of business ideas that I'm constantly adding to. I have dreams of opening a coworking space, a retreat center, a nonprofit, and half a dozen other things. 

I also do side work as a business coach for women starting their own businesses - I help them tell their story, think through their offerings, and act as an "instant brain storm." I do a bit of marketing consulting and writing for businesses still. I'm going to be rebooting my blog.

But let's be honest - I can't do everything. I can do anything, but not everything. There are ages and stages for everything. I'm a newlywed and right now, I'm laying the foundation for my marriage. The time will come to start (another) side business and I'll know when that time is. 

In the end, I don't want to be known for my job title. I learned that the hard way a job or two ago. I want to love Jesus, love people, and be kickass at whatever I do. 

Any last thoughts or encouragement for others trying to decide what they want to do “when they grow up”? In the words of Miss Frizzle, "Take chances! Make mistakes! Get messy!" This is life. That's how we learn. And have fun!

 And with those of words of wisdom, it’s time to say thanks to Caitlin, for taking the time to be a part of this series! Anyone have any questions for her?